it's been awhile. i finally went to my doctor (who i love by the way) and she changed my ativan to something different. it really affects my balance and i go reeling around the house, so maybe that's how it works, trying to keep my balance keeps me from thinking of other things. seriously, i don't turn every thought into a reminiscence about catherine that makes me cry. a few days ago, my 27 year old nephew dies of a ruptured aneurysm in his head. he donated a lot of organs, visitation was last night and the funeral is today. just more grief to add to my pile. when will it stop. i just sit around thinking who's next.